So there’s a question I’ve had to ask myself recently, it’s something I’ve asked myself many times before. A question that I feel still remains unanswered.
Can you fall in love online?
Now before people start shouting and telling me I’m wrong, I must stress this is just MY opinion.
I feel like the things that help to fall in love are the little things, you can spend weeks or months or years talking to someone every day and you can know them better than anyone else but how can you love them without the little things that add to the feeling of falling in love.
Like the way your heart skips when your hand brushed against theres, or the way you’ve never felt more safe than you do when they’re holding you. The butterflies you feel when your gaze catches theirs. The comfort in a moment of just being with someone who you feel truly understands you.
I’ve tried the world of online dating, fairly unsuccessfully. It’s a recent unsuccessful online encounter that has made me ask this question. How do you know how you feel if you have never met the person?
I’d like to think that if the connection is strong enough and you feel u really truly know the person and are attracted to their personality then you would be attracted to them physically too, but I guess it just doesn’t work out that way.
Sometimes I feel like maybe beauty really is only skin deep to some people.
What do you think?
Much love x